I (30F) have known this guy (30M) for almost 2 months, texted like daily, I was in a really bad mental and physical anxiety, I wasn’t able to socialize but he forced his way into my life, chasing me like no other, He found me attractive. I wasn’t really into him but he seemed nice. I used to not respond quickly and he would just insist and double text. 2 weeks fast forward I was out and Ive decided to meet up with him, it was short like one hour and he already asked about our next date. We planned our 2nd date to be after 2 days and we met up again. I had a wonderful time with him, he was very sweet greatest personality, I told him I like him. We ended up kissing and hugging. I was really shy and anxious and I had to stop him at one point but he was really gentle and reassuring, his body language was all indicative of him liking me. We planned our next date to be after a month from now. He then kept silent for 2 days and I could feel him pulling away. This has caused me to be the chaser now, he would just send snaps or reply to my texts. I’ve asked him out once but he said he had plans. He once posted a video about his favorite show that we talked about that described his feelings being confused . I haven’t think of it because he stopped initiating altogether. So I decided to go no contact and I somehow did And I think he got mad I could feel it. I moved on, met another sweet guy who’s into me. We met twice and he already wants to commit and talking about marriage. I can see a future with him but it’s just the wrong timing for me!

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