I(F27) went on a date with a guy (M33) for the 3rd time.. before this he was doing dry January so he didn’t drink during our dates. He asked me if it was okay if he drank.. knowing I’m an occasional drinker. I said yes be yourself. I had 1 shot at his place and 1 drink during dinner.
Him on the other hand, he had 1 shot before leaving .. at dinner 1 espresso martini and 4 soda/tequilas. Then at the bar we went to he had 2 tequila sodas.. and then when we got back to his place again 1 tequila soda.
I’ve never dated anyone who drank alcohol… Is this a normal amount.. or is it concerting? He didn’t act drunk and seemed relatively functional. He only drinks on weekends.
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UPDATE — So last night he went out with his friends.. and he got super drunk. I got a text message saying Im drunk. Usually we always text each other goodnight/call. I got no call. I called him at 4am and after 2 ring tones it went straight to voicemail. I got a call at 8am stating that he was “sleeping”. I have to wake up early to study for my med exams.. and from 4am-8am I was a bit worried. I think this cycle might be distracting? Am I over reacting