I, 28(F), and my husband, 29(M), have been deeply in love for years. We dated for almost a decade before getting married last year. In our dating phase he was extremely expressive with his love for me and he would buy me roses, random gifts etc. However , after we got married things have started to go down south. He hardly expresses his love for me. He spends most of his time with his friends and if I try to communicate my needs or feelings, he gaslights me. I am worried that he doesn’t like me anymore. Or may be that his idea of me when I wasn’t living with him contradicts with the reality of me when I am living with him.
Marriage sucks.