How to deal with a person who always makes a joke out of you?

5 comments

1. 1. Confront em and tell em to stop

   Or

   2. Cut them off

2. End it. They’re using you to deflect on. They need to take care of their own personal issues before using you as a punching bag figuratively.

3. Simple Stay Away from them.

4. Let them know it’s irritating whether they like it or not. Just be direct and blunt and don’t ask for permission just command them of your boundaries in your presence “please stop doing that…make fun of yourself for once…” — “excuse me? but you did it just now, then, and then – stop….now….” eye contact firm deep chest irritated and unamused. Any excess politeness will fail

   If they get all defensive or play dumb, stand firm. It helps to point out at-least 3 occurrences.

   They already tease others to compensate for their own dark and void sense of self worth inside so it’s likely they will be defensive of their unstable ego.

   If they keep going and laugh, raise the volume “what the hell’s wrong with you – I don’t have time for this sh*t – gross, I’m leaving”

   Predatorial dark-triad personalities will be most difficult and honestly won’t ever change – cursed to live with a need for so much external validation of feeding on others — best to get them out of your life as best as possible. Impossible people and they’re often subtle about it too, always corrosive in your social circle guaranteed.

   Subtle and irritating now, potentially mental health disorders and physical health ailments when left unchecked for years. Toxic people lead to literal toxins in the body

   Sometimes it makes them reallly mad when you don’t give in yet they started it… it is that ridiculous lol…

5. Cut them off immediately and never look back