I’ve been debating whether to ask this but here we go… I’ve been involved with a woman who enjoys anal sex. She likes for me to go back and forth between anal and vaginal sex in the moment- not like stopping to clean up or anything. I’ve know enough to know this a risk to her health but I’ve been doing it because I figure it is her body and won’t hurt me in any way. But I feel guilty – and I’d feel more guilty if she did get sick. Should I take it upon myself to not go back to vaginal once we’ve done anal? Or just let her decide since she’s the one who will suffer if there are problems.