So this is something that has happened so many times at this point I started to wonder if it isn’t in my head.
I’m 22F and I’m the child of divorced parents. Throughout my life I’ve had issues maintaining groups of friends. I can make friends but for some reason I’m not suitable for friend groups without other people looking for reasons for kicking me out even though whenever I analyze a situation the problem is mostly coming from them. At one point I started blaming myself and I believed that. Now 5 years later I’ve gotten apologies from different people about being mean to me or kicking me out of groups. It kind of proved that it wasn’t in my head and that even after five years people had a guilty feeling towards me. What I’m trying to say is that I’ve noticed that whenever some kind of drama happens, even if it is between other people, somehow people will only take two seconds to kick me out but will remain friends with the person who was literally the cause of the problem. Even my own parents have done this a few times to me even when they told me that their siblings were wrong but why are you being mean towards your own child in order to protect the feelings of your siblings. Are there other people who have gone through something familiar?