Co-worker mixed signals
My co-worker has been sending me mixed signals lately. She’s been flirty a little bit since January with me but last week she stepped up her game. I my office moved across the way from her and she came by on to talk to me, she asked me if I wanted to come to this event with her “play hooky from work and come with us.” so I was like all right cool she’s like hey you wanna I’m like bet let’s go. Nothing really special happened at that but we talked a little and asked if I was going on this work ski trip. She seemed disappointed when I said no.
But I got tickets to go and sent her a picture of it and she was excited. and later that day, Wednesday (valentine’s day) comes around, she send me a picture of us in the background from that event and says “small town famous!” And I give her a response that would be hard for her to reply to but she does anyway.
Thursday comes around and I sent her a text that morning asking if she has a map for the ski lodge, to see if she would send it to me. But she said “oh it should be on Facebook” then 2 hours goes by and she asking where I’m at and I just got there and asked where should I met you? We met at the lodge but I got there late. Once there she ask me if I could take her camera bag down and I said “yea just send me a text when you need it later or before you leave” she ways hyping me up to our boss over that and said “oh he’s being a real trooper for me” she text again later asking where I’m at and she told me to meet her at another lodge. So I do and she want the camera so I said “oh I’ll go get I parked kinda far” and she said “I’ll come with you” but brought 2 other co-workers and we talked a little bit on the way to my car BUT on the way back she’s going up to guys and talking to them a little bit. I figured that was a shit test to see if I get jealous but I played it cool.
She had mentioned in person that we should catch up sometime. So before I left Thursday I sent her a text that I’m leaving and for her to drive safe. She replied “You too. Good to see you!” So I hit her with “today doesn’t count as us catching up. I showed up late” she answered with “haha yes I agree! Any plans this weekend? Idk what the plan is but we could keep it in mind” so we made plans to meet Saturday….
Saturday comes by and I checkup to see if she coming (by the way she has to drive an hour to come see me I offered a couple of times to drive to her but she insisted on coming to me) she was like I’m available to come up and she was like yea at like 3pm. 7pm comes around and she said she’s too tired to drive but then at 9pm she was like “my friends are asking me to come I’m on my way up”
So I’m like ok since she coming all the way up let me go meet her at this bar. I get there and everyone there is a dude and she brought some guy she met on Valentine’s Day. So I was like wtf is going on cause it seems like I was on the bachelorette but she was happy to seem me and went out her way to talk to me but she also had like 6 guy “friends” with her so I talked with them for an hour then left to the mechanical bull area and met some new people.
I’m thinking about cutting her loose but I also have to see her often at work.
So basically I was on the bachelorette but didn’t know? She was happy to see me and went out of her way to talk to me. And she didn’t have to tell me she was coming up after originally canceling
I don’t like playing games so I think it’s best to leave things at work.