A few months after I had given birth to our first child, my husband and I walked past a clothing store with clothes intended for older and large-sized women. My husband suddenly started laughing and exclaimed that I could go with that type of “tent” now. This comment hurt me quite a bit, and it still haunts me today, even though I have shed most of the baby pounds after pregnancy. I don’t get to hear that type of comment regularly, but more like a jab every now and then.
My problem now is that I can’t put it behind me, and I find that sex has become difficult. I rarely feel like it. I don’t feel sexy anymore. Does anyone out there have any good advice on how I can get over this and feel good as I am, despite the fact that my body will never be quite what it was before