Just trying to get some opinions on some stuff. (38f here and my husband 38 m)Would you guys ever buy a new house with your significant other if things are kinda shaky at the moment? I really need a house with more space for my kids and an office since I work remote a significant amount of the time. It’s too hard to work without an office. It’s borderline torture sometimes. Way too loud. So it’s really something necessary. However, I’m scared that my husband and I might not work out at some point in the future. He has severe trust issues although I never did anything wrong and he always says I’m cheating even tho I’m always home 🤔. He gets into arguments and then says he is going to divorce me, find someone new, says I’m not affectionate enough, calls me curse words etc. etc. it doesn’t happen too often but maybe once a quarter lately. But it’s enough to make me question myself what the heck am I doing? Do I just accept it and buy a new house or should I see a lawyer before we buy anything new? He won’t see a councelor. I’m so conflicted. Any advise would be great. I’m so exhausted from it all I could barely write this post 🤣

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