So I’ve went on two dates with this girl whom I find fairly attractive,has some humor, and other general qualities that are appealing. However, what I never seem to understand – in her difference to other girls I’ve had interactions with – is that she never responds promptly to texts. Our main form of communication has been text and just that.
Now to clarify I don’t expect her to respond immediately within a minute, although there are plenty of people who do that which is a very natural thing to do. However she only happens to respond in a minimum of 1.5-3 hours to almost an entire day and a half. The texts themselves are ok – sometimes she asks about my day but never really pushes further when I explain how my day went.
I had interest in her initially and still somewhat do. But I feel that it’s going away ever so increasingly as this type of dynamic continues. Sure she has priorities, friends, and other things in her life; she can’t always text me all the time which I wholeheartedly understand. But even then, she is not someone who is a businesswoman, has meetings, clients, or is super scheduled either. People can always make time for something when they have interest.
That being said, I have a third date with her upcoming and am not sure if this may be my last as I am thinking of asking her the deeper questions and how she feels about me in fairness. Should I even bother with a third one or just let this one go? If I should go for a third one, what kinds of questions should I ask? Much appreciated.