When I meet someone or talk to them I’m always thinking about presenting myself properly, or being funny, or being interesting and cool and well-mannered and sociable and open and amazing and good… I never think about whether I like the person or not, and this ends up building a sort of wall between me and the other person because it feels like I’m an impenetrable wall of fakeness. How do I learn to fix this?
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Practice not putting on any sort of act for people. Let it come naturally, even if ur not in the best mood.
Authenticity is hard but can be learned like a skill. Focus on using your creative mind and imagination.