I’m a 21 year old college girl and I went over to this guys house last night. He’s 22. We’ve been following each other on Instagram and we have mutual friends, and all I wanted to do was hook up with him and made that clear. He was also on the same page. Last weekend we hung out for the first time and messed around a bit, but didn’t do the actual deed. So yesterday about 2 hours before I went over to his place, I felt really bad and had a headache but it passed by the time I go there, and about an hour later we did the deed and it was good. He had the red led lights on so you can’t see much at all, but I was really wet and got stuff all over my legs and the bed. When we finished he went to the bathroom and was in there for a while, then came out and asked me if I was okay so I was like yeah why and he said there was a lot of blood. So when I went to the bathroom I had blood all over my legs and it was all over the sheets…that’s what the wet stuff was and I was beyond embarrassed. My period wasn’t supposed to come for another week, but I guess he triggered it. I apologized and he said it was okay but I’m just really embarrassed. I told him I’d text him again next week but I don’t think I will anymore. It was great and I’d want to hook up with him again but I’m scared he’ll reject me after what happened. How should I feel about this and should I never talk to him again?
UPDATE: I texted him as some of you guys suggested I do, just apologizing again for last night and letting him know I’d like to hang out with him again and he never responded 😬 I feel like absolute shit now and I’m really upset, it feels like it’s all my fault.
UPDATED UPDATE: He responded, very late, but reassured it was fine and he wasn’t bothered by it 🙂