Also follow up questions: Do you regret spending the money on that one night? Were you able to go on a honeymoon after? Did you get help?
My low income friend is busting his ass and getting help to put up like $70k for a 150 person wedding in SoCal. This is considered a “cheap” wedding in our area. I’m dying inside for him. I’m way better off financially and I would never EVER do this.