I 30F found out my husband (30M) is snapchatting his colleague. We have been married for 4 years and this is the second time he’s done this. I don’t use Snapchat and neither did he. Recently i found out that he Snapchats with his colleague and when i confronted him about this he said its only for Streaks. I asked him what is a streak and he mentioned that you just have to send a random photo every single day.
A couple of days ago, i read a Snapchat message from the girl and they were apparently planning a trip to the US. I couldn’t take a screenshot because the message disappeared when i read it. I asked him what’s going on and he confessed he’s been sexting her for 6 months now.
This is heartbreaking to me because he never has sex with me even when i try to initiate it. I blame it maybe on the pregnancy weight but does it happen like this with everyone? I mean he tells me she means nothing but i don’t see it that way. I’m trying super hard to be thin and trim but I’m not even sure if that will help.