Long story short, there’s a very attractive married woman working on my floor, she’s very nice, we’re the only two black people on the floor.
She usually stops me to chat while passing each other in the office or comes over to my desk occasionally.
So far I don’t have problem chatting to her, I can control myself and not be flirty, keeping things friendly and professional but I’m hitting my limit here bros.
I know myself, I’m good with my words and comfortable around women, I also know that I’d happily be a home wrecker with zero remorse if she ever hinted at anything beyond that.
I’m not saying she’s into me but I know I’m into her and I’d much prefer to keep myself away than poke the bear. This is one hundred percent a me problem, I fully accept that so any thoughts or views are appreciated to maybe change my thought process.
Edit: Thank you for all the comments, I genuinely appreciate all of you for commenting, even the unnecessarily aggressive jackasses thanks for the laugh and alternative perspectives.
And to be fucking clear, I’m very aware of who I am, if I didn’t want to stop or if I wanted to act on this I clearly would, pause for a second and try to give advice and see where people are coming from if they’re that desperate to ask a bunch of people on reddit about a real life issue. I thought we were men here.