As the title says.. I’m nervous about her doing this again in our relationship. She assures me it is something she regrets & won’t happen again yet she is still in contact with them. I don’t want to be controlling, telling her who she can and can’t have contact with but this seems to not be a good decision on her end. I know a lot of people wouldn’t be willing to put up with this at all but I want to trust her. I’m not sure how to continue from here, it’s constantly on my mind. Is this sort of dynamic ultimately harmful or am I overthinking it all.
TLDR: gf is still in contact with someone she has EA with. Made rule early on we don’t talk to people we had sex with in the past but I feel like it’s a double standard