40s. Married 15+ years for reference. Wife and I often talk about her having fun and playing on the side and eventually bringing another guy home for some fun. Her favorite type of videos to watch are MMF. Recently she asked to sext randos. Now she wants to meet them for oral play but wants me to set the rules. She wants to be open and honest any everything. In the mood, this sounds amazing. Out of the mood, I’m so conflicted. She goes crazy talking about it and it’s benefiting our sex life. But the thought of her really doing it on the side is bothering me. She keeps saying things like if you want me to stop I’ll stop. I tell her how I feel but she continues to sext almost immediately after we talk. Has anyone gone through anything similar? Any advice?