Im 17M filipino american. For some reason alot of people have told me that their initial opinion of me was that i disliked them and was mean for some reason and cold. Or thst i think they’re stupid. (This is based on just looking at me and like surface convo) Then when they get to know me im acually nice and chill and accepting of ppls opinions also like i never get mad in the slightest. When i talk to people too even at first im not even like a serious person. Id say that im pretty confident when i walk around like ig like ”i don’t care what ppl think” kind of body language. Also another thing is people i don’t know are like extremely surprised when i talk to then. Especially girls are really awkward and say umm a bunch of times. Idk if its just me but everytime i look at someone they either immediatley look at me or are already looking at me and it feels awkward to look around in public cuz i naturally look at ppl cuz like tf else are u gonna look at. Why do ppl think this also how do i fix it to be more approachable? I don’t like making ppl feel bad or uncomfortable.
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How much do you smile?