I’ve been friends with this person for 9 years and they just basically ghosted me and I wrote this in my notes because I’m not sure if I should send it:
Hey if were not friends anymore, that’s totally fine. If that is the case, simply ignore this message as there’s nothing to discuss. But if I did something wrong I’d at least rather be told and if I did nothing and you’re just going through something, if you could just say that, that’d be cool. But again if we’re no longer friends, we had a good run, I hope it was good for you and wish you nothing but the best! But absolutely, do not respond to this if that’s the case because no response is a response and crystal clear for me.