37/F here who is scared to get back in the dating scene. I’m not sure what it is. Still healing from the past and I want to be 100% for someone.
Anyways I am confident in myself but I also in terms of interesting factor, I am not a travel gal, nor do I have a lot of hobbies (gym, art sometimes, music events, beach, 🏝️ local trips etc). I have a few. But I think my values and other traits can help outweigh that and I’m always open for trying new things.
What are qualities that are important for a guy? I don’t have kids but I’m very family oriented and supportive of my partner and I’ve had long relationships so I’ve learned how to communicate better (old me would beat topics to the pulp with ex’s now I give space).
There is a lot more but the reason I’m asking Reddit strangers is that my ex and I didn’t communicate well. I never knew what his needs were. And it was my first relationship in my 30s that was a bit more mature minus that part … so I wonder what men in their 30s need. I’ll always be me but I know I’ve had some work to do on myself so just curious 🧐