I know not every guy is looking for the same thing but would like some insight. So for this instance, say you’re a man in your mid-30s looking for someone to settle down with and want to have kids fairly quickly. You’ve been on a couple dates with someone that you’re getting along with pretty well, and things are getting a little more hot n heavy during your most recent date but the woman you’re dating stops you and tells you she does not want to go further unless she’s in an established relationship. Keep in mind, you’ve only been on a couple dates so its too soon to make such a commitment but you’re also very keen to be *intimate* with her. How would you be feeling? Would you be feeling rejected? What would you be thinking of her? Would you think its silly to wait until a solid committed relationship has formed or would you appreciate that she doesn’t let just anyone have that kind of access?