Long story short my husband and I got married very quickly. Everything had been great besides having to deal with the ex wife. They have a child together so I made it very clear from the beginning that I will not be over stepping or doing to much. The child has both parents. If I cannot make any type of medical, religious or important decisions for the child it is none of my concern. I have 2 children as well. He also has 2 older kids who live with us. The ex wife is constantly on some BS. One week she is coming to him with drama, the next week it’s her first ex husband who is taking the blows. We only know this because the ex husband and his wife will communicate with us every once in a while. Obviously it’s taking a toll on Ex wife’s other 2 children. But aside from that we had been trying to have a baby for a few months now and no luck, but I do find myself kind of relived when I “start”. I’m already sick of the drama this female brings. And I can only imagine what drama she would think of next if I were to get pregnant. He does get sad when we find out I’m not pregnant each month. And he does know I’m starting to get really sick of her BS. He has been great at putting his foot down about alot and putting her in her place since I’ve been here and especially since we have gotten married. Which obviously ex wife isn’t used to. So he is doing his part. I just don’t know if I want to deal with added BS of having a baby with him because she’s going to lose it. And God knows what she’ll think of to start issues.
She’s made fake police reports of her first ex husband’s new wife. She actually was having an affair with him as well. That’s why the divorce happened with my husband and her. There is so much to the story it’s like a life time movie. It does make me sad in a way that we can’t create a little person of our own because of her. I mean we can. But why add the drama right ?? What would you do ?
Breakdown: am I wrong for not really wanting a baby due to ex wife being a narcissist and trying everything in her power to over step and cause problems. ?