As the title states, I am unsure about the relationship and the future of it with my girlfriend.
We have been dating for a little over 8 months now and it has been a pretty healthy and good relationship overall. I would say the questioning of the relationship had began back about 4 months ago when I realized she has a somewhat resemblance to my ex. Nothing too crazy but it did mess with my head for a week or two. I got over this and made it clear in my head that they were two different people. But as of late I have had a lot of time to myself because she has been pretty busy catching up with her college work.
During this time I have thought about the current state of our relationship and the possible future. The current state of our relationship is what is to be expected from a healthy relationship but the thing is that it feels too perfect to me. We have no arguments or disagreements since we have dated and have for my the most part always said yes to each other when it comes to situations. That part worries me about since my past relationships were never like this. Is it just me or is this supposed to be normal? The relationship also feels really mundane at times and I often catch myself becoming sleepy when I’m with them.
As far as the future goes, she typically is the one mentioning it and at first I was on the same page but now I’m starting to realize maybe we could want different things. Idk I’m very confused and I feel like I need to talk to her about this but I feel like we might be better as friends than partners.
Tl;dr: unsure about the current status about my relationship with my girlfriend. Feel to perfect and may be better off as friends.