My bf have been together for a few years. Initially our sex life was great, having sex multiple times a day 2-3x a week. But it started to go down hill maybe 2 years ago. We only had sex maybe once a month due to being busy or just too tired. We live together now and our sex life is nonexistent. In the last year, we’ve had sex maybe 4 times. I feel like it could’ve been more but I just don’t crave sex with him. It’s really unsatisfying. It’s usually the same three positions and always stops way before I finish because he’s about to cum. By the time he’s done, I’m just there unsatisfied. We don’t do any more rounds because he’s tired or he can’t get hard again. There’s also no passion, it feels like routine movements. The foreplay also isn’t good as he isn’t good at oral sex either. When I try to do new positions or different things, he switches back immediately to the same three positions. There’s no reason for me to have sex with him since I am unsatisfied with it, so I don’t initiate it. I think he kind of knows it’s bad since he also doesn’t initiate it and is never flirty or touchy. How do I tell him in a nice way that he’s bad at sex? Is there even a way to fix my sex life? I don’t want this to be my life forever. I still want sex, but just not with him since there’s no satisfaction.