There are several problems I’m having that make having penetrative sex impossible for me. First, I’m on anti-androgens which make maintaining an erection without constant simulation extremely difficult for me.
Second, I think I have an oversensitive glans, because I’m uncircumcised, and HRT has made the skin on my penis softer and more sensitive. I have no problems with receiving oral, but when it comes to rubbing my tip, with lube, and even with a condom on, it feels painful, kind of in the same way being stimulated after orgasming feels. Every now and then, I notice that the skin on my glans is peeling, and under it is more sensitive skin. This only happened a few times before HRT, but this is now a weekly occurrence.
I’m at a loss for what to do, I’m going to ask for viagra/cialis during my next appointment at my clinic, but I don’t know what I can do to help with the oversensitivity issue. I’ve been with my girlfriend for more than half a year, and I’ve never managed to have penetrative sex with her.