I’m 20 yo guy and have In the last 1,5 years been working hard on myself. because I didn’t feel like I was confident, good looking or in shape. So I have been reading books to get on the right path and adopt the right mindset. And i feel like I’m more confident(can still improve), and I’m in the best shape of my life. I also look a lot better because I take care of my hair, face and beard. and I have been complimented a lot by my friends.
So I feel like I’m doing pretty good. But I’m getting a lot less attention from women lately, and I don’t have any logical reason for this. Before I started working on myself girls often gave me eye contact long enough for me to smile at them, and typically they smiled back. But these days I don’t even get enough eye contact to smile before they look away again.