My boyfriend (41m) has asked me (28f) on a few different occasions to “force/make” him do things that would bring me pleasure, and it’s not that I don’t want it I just have no idea where to start?!
He is open to just about anything and we have amazing sex, and this past week and a half I have taken a liking to the idea of being more “dominant/bossy” to him. But I get so in my head that I’ll look stupid or possibly do the wrong thing? We fully trust each other and we have explored many things together, but the idea of me being in charge seems tough!!
Here’s my question: what is it that men REALLY want us women to do to them during said time? If you could have just about anything from your partner what would that look like for you?