Me (22 F) and this guy (24 M) have been dating/talking for little over 2 months. I really like him, we get along great and we have a connection like I’ve never had before. He cares for me, makes sure that I’m comfortable with everything we’re doing and never wants to make me feel uncomfortable. I can feel free to talk about whatever knowing he is there to listen and it’s honestly so refreshing.
As you can tell from the title he is always on call, only really free day is Sundays, never has a set schedule and sometimes is out of town for a week. His communication is slowly slowing down, not texting as much but still invested in the conversation, we call sometimes and the convos are great there too. We really can only see each other on the weekends with him working every day of the week basically.
I saw him last Saturday for the first time in 3 weeks (first week he was out of town for work then the next week he was out of town for vaca then the next week he was just working) and we were both so happy seeing each other again after all that time. That time apart though hurt, just wanting to see him and not being able to. Even had some pretty bad days at work and all I wanted was a hug from him but couldn’t. I know he couldn’t help the first 2 weeks being out of town, I even tried to think of ideas of places we could go together when he got back into town but he really didn’t give much thought to it.
Am I making too much effort? Not enough? I’m trying my best not to be to naggy but I want to see him way more often then I do right now. What do I do? I’m so conflicted on my feelings, I really do like him and I know he likes me but is it worth only seeing him maybe once a week when we live 15 min away from each other?