Me [18M] and my Girlfriend [18F] are in relationship for 5 months now.
But we have some misunderstanding with each other.
Like every other couple we tease each other on a sexual way.
But she isn’t ready to have to have sex.
We slept together planty of times but she refuses to do it.
We discussed with each other for this topic and she said she doesn’t want to lose virginity with me.
She is saying that she dosnt want to have sex until we are engaged but she want to be engaged until she turns 23-year-old(After finishing University). And i said to her I’m not waiting till then and i don’t think she will wait until then to.
The problem isn’t here because I respect her decision but I’ve heard that she lost her virginity already with her ex but she is denying it.
When we face time each other we tease each other and we talk and imagine what our first time will be.
On valentines day we were together and i asked to do it but she refused and since them we are discussing about this.
Am I the problem here?