Not sure how to start this, so I’ll start with a bit of context. My wife and I (26) have been married almost 5 years now. We were high school sweethearts and we decided to wait until marriage to have sex.
After marriage, our sex life is, not great, to put it bluntly. She never took much interest in sex, even if I tried my hardest to focus on her pleasure. I get self conscious about it, because since we’ve never been with anyone else I can’t tell if I’m the problem or if she is, or both.
She says she doesn’t get much sensation from penetration (I’m 5.5 inches, so not a monster but I can’t imagine thatd be why). she says she likes when she grinds on me, so I let her do that as much as she wants.. But even then after just a minute of that she rolls off of me and says “I’m done”. It’s like she just wants to get it over with and not enjoy it at all.
Is it normal for girls to have no sex drive? Ive brought it up to her and told me how it makes me feel unwanted and unattractive to her. She didn’t really give a response. When we do have sex lately I haven’t felt any sort of connection to her like I used to. I love her very much but I don’t know if I can keep this up my entire life.