For context!: I met this guy after he slid in my dms on Facebook. I don’t usually add random people I don’t know but I’ve gone to school with him my whole life and we had a ton of mutual friends. I was up front with him and let him know that I “stalked” his Facebook and insta (we had already been following each other on insta). It’s not like I was liking old posts from 2012. And he admitted to “stalking” my profiles as well. I’ve had some bad experiences meeting people online so I was just scoping him out. On our very first date, we talked about that. And I brought up how it was interesting that every time I went to any woman’s profile that interacted with his posts, he has heart reacted to their profile pics. Maybe he thought that was stalkerish, but I thought it was weird that he was just liking every woman’s pics lol. Let’s say he posts a pic of Japan- I look at the likes to see who likes the pics. Maybe he thought that was super strange? But I’m not the only one who does that.
So, I have spent the night with this man and we also had sex. Everything seemed normal when we both got home, I still got my “good morning baby” text messages. He mentioned that he was going to his friends wedding this weekend. I said “oh sweet! Which friends?” And he didn’t want to tell me. Then he said: “You literally stalked all my stuff. I don’t really like that tbh. that was like a vibe killer for me lol” but this is the first he’s even mentioned it being a vibe killer. This was yesterday. I sent my texts. No “good morning baby” text.
Did he just want to get his dick wet then find the first excuse to drop me?! Advice please. I really like him.