A little backround, my wife (40) and I (42) have been married for 16 years and have 2 kids. The last 3 years we have not had sex at all. She has never been vary open about sex and i have always had the higher drive. Up until we got married she has never masturbated. Now today i was looking for something and looking into her night stand. At first I didn’t even realize what it was. But upon further inspection i saw it was a clit sucker. I was in shock! Never would I think she would masturbate especially buy her own sex toys. I doug a little deeper and found a glass dildo, a vibrating massager, a vibrating G spot vibrater, and a clear silicone dildo. I’m still in shock. Now i plan on having more sex with her. Do i confront her about this? I also would like to start using toys in our sex life. Do ask her about it?
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Please help with any of your thoughts. Thanks.