I’ve started this new job where sure I do my job without much trouble, but if it came down to how well I perform in the social setting I would be fired on the spot.
I don’t get what I do wrong. Sometimes I crack a joke that nobody laughs to, but mostly I’m focused on making it past the trial period. The others however are fine telling anecdotes, jokes, sharing about daily life etc. I do keep it low when it comes to sharing my personal life, but I do it out of not having anything interesting to say. I have a dog, I play league of legends and that’s about it.
I struggle on tinder too. I am unable to pull anybody decent looking. I get it, we all are different and lovable in our different ways, but it would feel nice to get someone who doesn’t look like they don’t care about what they look like. I’m confident that it’s not about what I look like either, I’m confindent with my looks.
It feels as if I had an aura that would repel other people from getting to know me. What is wrong with me?