I’d obviously be the one be doing them! I wouldn’t just lump a bunch of my responsibilities on someone else, ahah.
But, from a dom’s perspective, if your sub/partner was somewhat aroused by the idea of you keeping tabs on them like a teacher with their student’s homework, or a parent reminding their kid to make the bed, clean the kitchen, or a manager telling them to get their head down and answer those pesky emails and finish typing up the latest draft..would that be too much, too arduous, or just plain unstimulating?
I can mostly keep track of things myself, but having a dom to simply ask in the day, kind of patronising-like, relaxed, but still in charge: ‘so, did you do x yet? hm, okay, well get to that after lunch – I want it done before dinnertime.’, or ‘tsk, it’s a mess in here, c’mon. no, you *know* this is messy, even for you. this better look different by the time I’m back in here at 4’., etc. Is that too strange? I both find it genuinely stimulating and helpful (audhder), but also pretty arousing as it works as a kind of foreplay to me. I think its underpinning of humiliation, embarrassment and imbalanced power roles is just a real turn on. Just me?
Yeah, as a dom who does that, or a sub who has it done/would like it done, I’d love to hear your experiences with it (and ideas too, as after I’ve got all my tasks done, maybe the whole process could apply to something kinkier).