I know this thought is dumb, first of all. So, from a relationship standpoint, I think that when a partner is having a bad day, it’s the other partners job to make it a little easier, doing some chores, talking, sharing ther pain etc.. And I apply this to my relationship aswell, im a pretty happy go lucky guy, I have great mental and physical health, but my partner has really low confidence, and she has dealt with more mental health problems (body image, anxiety…). In the end, for example, out of 10 of our bad days, 9 of them are hers, and I know absolutely that it’s not her fault, and I am not mad at her in any way, but on all of those days she feels bad, i feel bad aswell, i share her pain, and try to make her feel better, and she does the same for me. But because she has so many more troubling moments, I feel like im giving more than I am getting, and I know it’s irrational, and that lifes not fair. But idk what to think anymore. Any thoughts?
TL;DR: My partner is in a bad mood a lot more than me, and I feel like im giving more than I am getting, idk what I want exactly, or how to feel.