I (26) got married to my husband (28) almost 6 years ago. I was four months pregnant with our daughter when we got married. We had been dating for about 5 years before we got married. High school sweethearts. When I got pregnant our families pushed us to get married. Ofc we were planning to get married oneday anyway but they pushed for us to get married before the baby was born .. so we did. Everything was great but over the years (especially these last couple of years) I just don’t feel anything there anymore. I don’t think it’s anything he’s doing wrong.. I mean he is a nice guy who takes care of our two kids (5 year old and 20 month old). He does what a husband should do.. which is why I feel so bad for feeling this way. I love him as a person but not as a husband. I do feel like a terrible person because honestly I don’t know if I’ll ever be in love with him again even if he changes. I don’t know why I feel this way.
It feels like we always argue , always stress over finances. I never want to have sex with him but I still do it sometimes bc he wants to. I’m not attracted anymore.
I don’t know what to do.. I feel like I’m hurting my kids if we divorce. Neither of us would be able to afford the house we have if we divorced. I’d feel bad also bc he loves me. I just don’t feel the same way. I really need advice pls. I’ve never been through this.