So my partner is asexual and I am heterosexual. I have ADHD and am very much in love with my partner, however I feel like sometimes it only goes one way. I have tried to show her that I care and that I appreciate her but everytime I do it gets shut down or isn’t reciprocated. We have had multiple talks about how we would like to be treated by each other and it stays that way for a week or so and then goes back to normal. There is little to no romance in the relationship and we just got back from a trip to Thailand and I felt like we had gotten closer but when we got back to home it was back to how it was before hand. I feel like she judges me and she makes snappy remarks about me being a man thinking I know everything when I try to show her things. I have tried to bring the romance back into our relationship but it is either shut down or she wants to do something else completely. When we kiss it’s a small peck and then she turns her head which makes me feel like she doesn’t want it or something. She talks down to me and last week she said It’d be better if I were alone. I shut down completely after that and I feel quite hurt from it all. I feel like I am at the end of my tether and want to end things but I am very much in love with her and i don’t know what to do.