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So after about a week of no contact my girlfriend has finally reached out. She said she has been distant because she just hasn’t been feeling herself lately. So I told her that I felt we needed to talk. Her response was “talk about what?” Like really!! I informed her we needed to talk about how she said her therapist said she needs to be by herself and should break up with me, as well as I deserve better. I also mentioned that since she didn’t communicate with me for a week I felt she was done with the relationship. Her response was no, she was not done, She just didn’t think I wanted to be with her after what she told me. (not true) After some back and forth I explain that I am really hurt that she texted me those things and ghosted me, and felt like she wanted nothing to do with me. She says I did nothing wrong, and that she just feels its her that sucks because she feels like she treats me like shit.
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I am having some doubts that she can change and is just saying these things to get me back. She has agreed to meet with me but said she can’t do it until Sunday possibly. I just don’t want to go back to someone who is just using me and is not emotionally available. Hopefully Sunday goes well and we do get back together, as I truly love this girl but somethings need to be fixed and changed in the relationship.
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\*\*\*\* Old Post
At the beginning of the month, my girlfriend (F27) and I (M29) suffered a miscarriage and she has since started therapy. Thursday everything seemed great, as we spend the day together. She even said she loved me before she went home. Friday, she told me she had a rough day at work and didn’t want to see me as losing the baby was really effecting her. She then informed me her therapist told her she needs to be by herself and should break up with me. I myself go to therapy and have been told therapist don’t tell people what to do?
She is conflicted on this and told me I deserve someone better because of how well I treat her and everything I do for her. She also stated that she feels she doesn’t have enough time for me. I don’t know what do as she hasn’t contacted me since. This is very uncommon as we text or call each other daily. I truly don’t want to break up with her. Any advice on what to do?