Guy I’m casually seeing told me the other night to
“practice sucking” after we were hanging out and I was about to leave. I didn’t know what to say I was kind of shocked because l’ve made him cum every time for the past year. His reactions and everything have been positive. I told him I would be nervous to do it again since it was kinda a blow to my ego. Long story short after some back and forth he was saying I was making a big deal out of a “small request.” He didn’t say it in a mean tone but his reaction to my reaction is off putting. Am I overreacting? What should I do?
For context we have been casually hanging out with no sex, no kissing, hugging or oral on me. (Before you say it, I KNOW. It’s a weird arrangement and I have mixed feelings about it but I’m afraid to put it out there in the open. My sex drive isn’t too high but a girl still has needs.) thanks for any advice