I’m not trying to be lame or a stick in the mud or w/e but guys don’t respect my boundaries and I don’t know what to do. I’ve (30f) been trying to have more casual sex lately and it’s been pretty awful all things considered. Pretty much despite me casually bringing it up before sex, and then in a “sexy way” during sex all of my partners still cum inside me. I’m on birth control and get tested with all my partners but I’m still nervous about pregnancy! I usually get pretty upset in the moment and they always claim it’s an accident or they couldn’t pull out fast enough. I usually feel pretty wronged and stop seeing them after but then it just keeps happening with the next guy. Is there something I don’t know about guys?? Even when I was a virgin and only giving blowjobs I used to have the same problem with guys cumming on my face. How can I enforce these boundaries without being a huge bitch??