Hello!
My partner (28M) and I (29M) have been together for 6 years. Six months after we started, I moved to his country. The beginning of the relationship was idyllic: we got along great, had many things in common, and did everything for each other. When I moved to his city, the first year was difficult. I felt vulnerable and not very well treated by him. However, I understand that it must have been tough for him too to have to deal with me being new to his country. In the following years, with ups and downs, we’ve always known that we love each other very much. I have felt very supported by him throughout these years, and it feels strange to imagine a life without him. However, I feel that the years go by and I’m not entirely happy in this city. We stopped making fun plans together a long time ago, and my sexual attraction towards him has disappeared to the point where I feel very guilty. I love him a lot, and I want him in my life. But I feel like something is missing. I feel that we both have a deep love for each other and want to fight for it, but I’m not living the life I would like. Communication between us is also not the best, and many times I feel bored. Despite this, I have doubts every day about whether I should stay in a relationship like this or not. Can someone help me open my mind in this regard?
Thank you!