I (18M) just lost my virginity a week ago. The night before I attempted to with a girl but I couldn’t get hard which she understood and was ok about. The next night was better, although it wasn’t as hard as normal but I couldn’t ejaculate. I’ve never had issues masturbating. Ever since we’ve been going at it quite frequently and every now and then I still struggle to get hard, and have only ejaculated once, due to me masterbating with her. Obviously we are both annoyed and it’s making it hard to perform well when all I think about is keeping erect and trying to ejaculate faster.