My husband and I have been in long distances since last may due to him being on probation, and I needed help taking care of our daughter. So I moved closer to my parents. He was supposed to move on the first week of march. Well, this Monday, my husband confessed that he drunkly cheated on me on Friday night. He was apologetic and felt that I didn’t deserve that. I still love him, but obviously, I was angry and hurt for him to break my trust. Part of me wants to give him a second chance, but the other part of me is to file for divorce. He didn’t even try to beg for forgiveness or tried to talk to me after the confession. He did say that he needs time apart and hasn’t been feeling like himself for months. I just don’t know what to do. Everyone tells me yo divorce him, but I do wonder if therapy would help him since he has a lot of trauma from his past.
Update: I’m filing for divorce. He never bothered to talk to me and is still sleeping with the same girl.