So we had a brief relationship, around 3 months. I broke things off a few weeks ago when she lied about her location and ghosted me for a night (my birthday actually).
I told her it was suss and made me feel really weird. She freaked out on me, labeling me toxic and that any love we had for each other was superficial if i could leave so easily.
I went no contact, but got a text a few days ago from her, basically reiterating all she said before… only harsher. She made some very personal digs at me and devalued all of our relationship… saying it was never serious.
I responded by sticking up for myself, saying i don’t regret breaking up, but that despite all this horrific stuff you’re saying, i really valued the time we spent together.
I treated her with respect and care, and i genuinely really liked her, but i don’t regret breaking up.
However, I miss her dearly and have an instinct to mend this wound. She played victim massively in her text. Which has my mind running in circles.
So i’m wondering, why would she send such a long mean text? Is it her form of coping mechanism…
I’m eager to call her but I’m hesitant to get hurt again.
Any advice or insight is appreciated!!
Cheers.