I’m FTM but really prefer anal stimulation to anything else, and lately have only been having anal sex. My only issue is I can’t seem to cum without touching my clit or using a toy, but it’s super numb due to SSRIs and I want to know if just avoiding it would be less frustrating. For whatever reason my ass has full feeling and I feel the same as before I took SSRIs, it’s just hard to cum from only anal stim.
Anyway my question is if I can have an orgasm with just anal stimulation? It’s pretty pleasurable for me but I just have a hard time getting over the edge and having a full blown orgasm. I’ve been trying to train myself to not touch anywhere else but it’s hard lol. I am open to chastity but for now I just wear a jockstrap or thong and try to use my hands on my partner instead of myself.
I really focus on my guys pleasure and love that for him, but I’m feeling so frustrated during sex that I feel like I need to just ignore my clitoris completely. Not sure if that even makes sense, but I feel a lot better since accepting that and focusing on what actually gives me pleasure. Trying to cum with my clit is extremely frustrating and doesn’t even feel that good.