Title explains it I love my wife but there’s so many time i’m heartbroken. She barely has sex with me. She says it’s not a attraction thing but every since I started going to the gym a lot I feel less love from her. I try to get her to come with me but she feels insecure which I completely understand. She says I don’t just cuddle with her and when I do it’s only for sex. But every time I try to cuddle throughout the day she says she’s uncomfortable and shrugs me off. I am constantly picking up after her and she doesn’t clean her portion of the house and when she does it’s bare bones (just picking stuff up not vacuuming etc.). Everytime I come to her with something about how what she does makes me feel she calls me a hypocrite and brings up the same couple situations where I messed up. Any suggestions.