Just read the worst advice I can remember
People get really upset when relationships are scrutinised, and onus is put on both partners to do something to make the relationship healthier.
Reading, on a post about a man who longs for more meaningful connection, intimacy, the validation of his desirablity and sex with his wife, that he needs to try connecting with her in ways he hasn’t already (like dates, walks, alone time) and to just cycle through things until he finds something she responds to positively. It’s made me mad and a little offended for this man on his behalf.
And God forbid you suggest he ASKS her how she can feel more connected to him.
Asking your partner about their feelings and such is apparently a bad thing ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
And when asked why, trust me sis.
It’s infuriating