So I’m aware I’m way too much obsessed about this but I can’t help it. I simply fail to understand this behavior. I start to feel they deliberately want to annoy me just by reply to disappear after.
What happened? I’m a hobby car trader so I have a car for sale. Guy replied today that he’s really interested and so on. We agreed on the price. Done deal you would think. Then I ask him when he can meet me. And then it was radio silence. Sure, somebody can be busy with family or something but, nah.
What’s the logic in this? I really want to understand but I can’t. So what, you’re seeing someone asking when to meet after making a deal and you just ignore it or something? 8 hours later tried again because I have another interested person but again nothing.
It frustrates and annoys me a lot. I check my phone the whole day to check for a reply. I don’t want to be so focused on it. I wish I could just say whatever and just go on doing my stuff. A simple “I’ve changed my mind” would be totally fine. But this, I hate.
Can someone explain how this works in someone’s head?