The guy I’ve (f/34) been seeing has been sending me sexts and also tried talking dirty to me the one time we had sex a couple weeks ago. I’ve never been very confident in my sex talk game, but it’s even harder for me with him because he has ED and literally cannot get it up for anything.
His dirty talk does come down to he badly wants to penetrate me, but because he can’t, I’m wondering what things I can say to him that are hot but don’t involve actual penetration so it’s focusing on things he can actually do.
Like when we were having sex he asked me to tell him what I wanted him to do to me and literally all I could think of to say was “whatever the fuck you want” because I don’t really know what to say. He’s an amazing kisser but his oral skills are lacking and fingering doesn’t do much because he’s a little too aggressive. I’m going to “train” him on all of that, but just focusing on the dirty talk issue, what are some things I can say to him that don’t involve actual penetration?