Hello, I’m a 25F in a long term relationship. I’ve been sexually active since I was 17, and I’ve been with both men and women.
No matter what I do—whether alone or with a partner—I CANNOT reach climax. Fingers, toys, tongues, dicks (flesh variety) the jet of a swimming pool… I’ve tried it all. But I can never get there.
I’m a pretty horny person in general, and I get wet/aroused very easily. It feels like my anatomy does everything right until it’s time to “release”.
When I get close, I get very uncomfortable. It’s almost painful actually. It feels this way near or on my clitoris, and I have to stop or ask my partner to stop because it’s too much.
It’s been this way since I was a teenager. I’m not sure what would cause this or if I’m doing something wrong. I appreciate any advice!